Would this letter upset you if recieved from your MIL?

I reckon communication and cooperation is nonexistent between you and me. I do not know what you want from me. I feel that whatever I say or do is misinterpreted resulting in ill feelings between us. By Joe as a go between prevents open-communication and prevents answerability for how our actions are interpreted and treated. You make other plans so I am left lonely at your home, or you demand I find somewhere else to stay. The only reason I come to visit is to see you, Joe and the children. If I am not welcome in your home and not allowed to see any of you while I am there, I may as well not visit. I am sorry that I resent you comparing time I am lonely in your house to time you spend with your parents in Disney World, on cruises and at the beach, going out to feast and just lynching out with them. If the shoe were on the other foot, I know your parents would feel the same way I do. Sitting lonely in your house or somewhere else in NJ is NOT the same as being on trips and lynching out with you and your family. Also, literally each time Joe rides with me in the car, you call him on the cell phone and talk the entire time. Joe informs me we must stop whatever our plans are. You have the right to tell Joe what to do and I agree he must do what it takes to make you pleased, including ignoring me and telltale me your friends and family take full presence over any plans previously made with me. I still feel hurt, but I do not want to argue with you or Joe. I do feel that Joe and you should respect me enough to inform me that plans made with me produce resentment and will not be carried out, hence I should not get my hopes up. I admit I feel envious that you are allowed to spend time (go to lunch or out for the afternoon) with your mom and not be on the cell phone with Joe the entire time. Delight accept my apology for feeling hurt and humiliated that I cannot be part of Joe's life while you are allowed to be very active with your mom. I am truly pleased you are so very close with your mom. I used to be the same way with Joe. He now belongs to you and I know as the mother-in-law I have to let go. I do not want to be the produce of your friction with Joe. I do not want a score card kept for the time spent with my grandchildren and then be told that the reason you take vacations with your parents and are allowed to go out to feast with them is because I am always around. We know this is not right. I feel like you are mocking me when you make such comparisons.The small time I have with my grandchildren is not close to the freedom your parents have to come and go as they delight in your home, and all the events you spend with them. I agree it is none of my business what you do with your parents. I am free to an answer when I invite you to do something with me. A simple no is fine. I do feel hurt that I cannot be part of my son's life and his family, but I respect that you are the most vital person in Joe's life and you simple do not want me around. Joe has made very clear to me that under no situation will you ever take a trip with me, because it upsets you- your feel bored and sick. The two of you argue the entire time you are forced to be at my home or doing something I suggested. When you make other plans to arrive late and leave ahead of schedule, these actions make me feel belittled and stupid for getting my hopes up. I felt resentful last Thanksgiving when Joe insisted I change my work schedule so you could spend the weekend here. He stated this is my only weekend each year to have you and the children visit, I made plans to visit the North Pole and spent $ 300 for groceries for that weekend. You at home late (blaming Joel the father of her first child, though he is flexible when plans are made with your parents) and announced you were leaving within 16 hours because your parents chose to have a huge Thanksgiving party. I felt insignificant and like everything I did was a set up for you can show me how small I mean to you. Joe is yours, I get it! I don't know what I did to you to make you feel that you need to mill my soul into the ground with humiliation; why you tell me you like me and then make sure all plans with me has a hurtful twist of events. Joe said you will not visit the North Pole with me, because you cannot afford to take a vacation, but then your parents invited you to go to Disney World for Christmas, to have you and the children to them self. And off you went, after telltale me I was welcome to come and stay for Christmas. I sat lonely in your home and you told me this was my quality time with my grandchildren. I should not be export $ 300 – $ 600 worth of groceries each month to make sure you have enough food, if I am not welcome in your home and you plot to leave as soon as I get there. When I am told I am welcome,

Answer by perfectvelvet
Sounds like she has some serious issues with you. Yes, it would upset me — but I’d be more upset that our relationship had escalated to this point, especially if I was acting the way you were and she felt she had to resort to letter writing to get her point crosswise.

Answer by Chik9874
Sounds to me like you are being very rude and mean to her!! Sounds like all she desires to do is get the same respect you are charitable your mother! If I were you, I would be embarrassed to post this on the internet!

Answer by Haggi
Yes it would. That is a heartfelt letter from a MIL who is being denied respect and like but being expected to bankroll your family. Joe and you should treat her with respect and kindness or be honest and cut any ties.

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I know this is a weird comparison but i have a choice to make. I need a new cell phone since i broke my razr the other day plus i need a new ipod since i sold my ipod video the other day. Im 20 being ancient and im still under my moms T-mobile family plot with my sister and father. I reckon its time to arm out and get my own plot. Since i need a new phone and ipod i thought the iphone would suit me just fine. I already talked to the dealer and they said since i got excellent credit i don’t have to make any kind of deposit. I might choose the $ 80 plot. But i just sold my wii so i could use a new video game system, the 360 would be the one i want. From all the sellling right now i have $ 545. What should i get? 360 or iphone. I also just started my new job at sears so possibly i should wait and see how that turns out b4 i get the iphone, but i already have another job that would pay barley enough to afford it. What do i do?

Answer by Ben G
I would go with the iPhone. 360s are very fun but it seems that the iPhone would be a lot more helpful to you.

Answer by Bradley K
i would go with the iphone.. u would need that more for emergency’s or stuff like that than a 360… and then after some time working at sears u can make enough money for a 360….thats what i would do

Answer by bkchiq11221
I say the iPhone because you it’s two things that you need in one device. It will serve you better than to just buy one item that only serves one function.
-Hope this helped.

Answer by doanius
I would say xbox 360 for now. iphones are in the first generation and internet on the edge network is too slow right now. There’s talk 3g coming for later releases of the iphone, 2nd gen which will speed up internet access. there are a lot of cool things about the iphone but those things don’t work as well as advertised. The look and feel of the iphone is extraordinary but I would wait in anticipation of all the bugs are worked out and the software is better.

xbox 360 is $ 399 + $ 59 for live + games = $ 460 + games
iphone is $ 399 + 2 being of service at $ 80 = $ 2319

my 2 cents

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