Why is my son so aggressive?

by Youth Radio

My son is seventeen years old and is in senior. He has always been a good kid and a good student until last year just before the school ended. He got suspended four times for fighting in span of two and half months. After second time, we decided to pull him out of kickboxing and told him he'll not be wrestling for senior year. It just got worse from there.
In first fight, he just knocked the other guy out then walks away. Second time, group of three guys jumped him and he fought them off. After we pulled him out of kickboxing and told him he'll not be wrestling for his senior year, he just starts to actually hurt people. In third fight, two guys tried to jump him, the dean says both guys need to go to hospital, one for stitches and a fractured eye orbit while other one went into seizure. Not long after that, he got attacked by one of the guy's brother and he was stomping on the guy's face until he got jumped by a couple more guys, that was when the fight got stopped.
Just a couple days before the school ended, there was a reported that the first guy my son got in fight with had a gun in the car and was planning on shooting my son after the school. The police came and found a gun in car and arrested the guy who brought the gun. When my son found out, he didn't even seem alarmed at all, he was just very calm about the whole thing. It was an incredible scary and stressful time for everybody. It was so bad that my husband have to drive my son to and from school everyday for last couple days.
This summer he got a under table job as a welder due to his age. He got paid above minimum wage, but definitely not what a normal welder would make, but he was happy about the job. Since he doesn't exactly fit in constructor's stereotype, he's smaller, not rugged, and doesn't drink or do drugs. So he was having some problem with few of workers. He have been suspended from work twice for fighting, last time he was nearly fired because he broke a man's arm with a kick, render him unable to work for a couple weeks. But we can see he hate his job, but he keep doing it for money. On the last week, his boss decided to not pay him after he put in a lot of over time, so they got in a big argument. I am guessing what happened was my son saw him went into port a potty, so he somehow jammed the door and damaged all of the works he have done. This result in his boss came over and yelled at us while armed with a crowbar. We have to really hold my son back from going out to fight his boss, he end up throw a vase at his boss but missed. That was when his boss finally left.
Just last weekend, we had a small family party at my place. He and his cousin got in an argument because my son says he didn't believe in god. So after a short argument, my son turn and walked away but his cousin tried to grab him roughly, to everyone surprise, my son turned and punched him in body so hard that he was laying on ground for good ten minutes and throwing up later that night.
Other thing that have changed is, he no longer keep his room clean, doesn't really go out to do things any more, doesn't smile or laugh any more, hardly touch his cell phone, and other things. Sometime he's just lock himself up in his bedroom for days. Keep in mind there's no television or computer in his bedroom. He has never really had very many friends, but he used to always bring a girl home or go out with a girl. But he haven't done that since beginning of the summer and haven't seen any of his friend either.
I don't know what is wrong with my son. He used to never get in a fight and shy away from physical conflict. But now it is getting to point where he's always getting in a fight. His temper is also getting really nasty and he's always getting mad at and argues with me and my husband. Now he's saying unless we put him back into kickboxing and wrestling, he's not going to college and will going to Thailand to train for kick boxing instead after he graduated high school. This is so not him. He's on a honor roll and do very well in school and until just end of last year, was consider to be a very good student and used to talk about how he want to attend college to study architecture. Also we cannot believe how much he has hurt other people and how aggressive he has gotten. We're afraid that it won't be long before he got in another fight at school.
We're desperate now and we don't know what to do anymore.

Why doesnt he get so aggressive when he do kickboxing and wrestling? Yet the moment we pulled him out, it seems like he’s out there to hurt everybody.

Answer by job112002
That’ s why

Answer by Daniel A
I would suggest mediation it relieves my stress in a positive way. Fighting is a way your son relieves stress I believe. Either that or he has some anger management issues which mediation can help also. A psychologist would also be a good idea.

Answer by Jen A.
You need to take your son to a psychologist. SERIOUSLY. NOW.

That kind of agressive stuff could have started for a lot of reasons, but if it isnt treated, he’s going to end up in prison.

And learn to use paragraphs. damn.

Answer by @§§
Your son needs to be put in jail. Even after all these fights, you do nothing about it? Send him to juvenile hall or jail. He’s totally out of anyone’s control.

Answer by Me
Your son may be bipolar or have another type of mental disorder.
He needs professional help immediately to evaluate his condition.

Whatever happens, make sure you let him know that you are there for him and if he is diagnosed with a disorder, let him know he isn’t crazy.

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